Episodes
Thursday Mar 28, 2024
Season 3 - Episode 3: Can I Trust My Psychiatrist with guest Katie Dalke, MD
Thursday Mar 28, 2024
Thursday Mar 28, 2024
Season 3, Episode 3: "Can I Trust My Psychiatrist?" with guest Katie Dalke, MD
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Show Notes:
Carnal Knowledge, Rebecca’s newsletter: https://rebeccaldavisphdgmailcom.substack.com/
National LGBTQIA+ Health Education Center: https://www.lgbtqiahealtheducation.org/
Thursday Feb 29, 2024
Season 3 - Episode 2: Should I Curate Porn for My Teenager? with Ellen Selkie, MD
Thursday Feb 29, 2024
Thursday Feb 29, 2024
Season 3, Episode 2: "Should I Curate Porn for My Teenager?"
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Resources:
Sex-Positive Families
Common Sense Media
Society for adolescent health and medicine
Learning More from Adolescence On-Line (LMFAO)
https://www.pediatrics.wisc.edu/research/research-groups/lmfao-selkie/
B3study.org
Scarleteen: sex ed for the real world
Bare Bodies: Reality Checking Mainstream Porn: https://www.scarleteen.com/article/politics_sexual_identity_sexuality/bare_bodies_reality_checking_mainstream_porn_part_one
Sex On Screen: reality Checking Mainstream Porn:
https://www.scarleteen.com/article/politics_sexual_identity_sexuality/sex_on_screen_realitychecking_mainstream_porn
Jeffrey Moran, Teaching Sex
Thursday Jan 25, 2024
Season 3, Episode 1: Is Porn Bad For Your Health?
Thursday Jan 25, 2024
Thursday Jan 25, 2024
Season 3, Episode 1: "Is Porn Bad For Your Health?"
**CONTENT WARNING**
This episode contains talk about violence, rape, sex trafficking, child pornography, and racism. Please listen with care.
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References
Sniewski et al. The assessment and treatment of adult heterosexual men with self-perceived problematic pornography use: A review, Addictive Behaviors, Volume 77, 2018. Pages 217-224
Hook, J. N., Farrell, J. E., Davis, D. E., Van Tongeren, D. R., Griffin, B. J., Grubbs, J., ... & Bedics, J. D. (2015). Self-forgiveness and hypersexual behavior. Sexual Addiction & Compulsivity, 22(1), 59-70.
Fritz, N., Malic, V., Paul, B. et al. Worse Than Objects: The Depiction of Black Women and Men and Their Sexual Relationship in Pornography. Gend. Issues 38, 100–120 (2021). https://doi.org/10.1007/s12147-020-09255-2
Dwulit AD, Rzymski P. The Potential Associations of Pornography Use with Sexual Dysfunctions: An Integrative Literature Review of Observational Studies. Journal of Clinical Medicine. 2019; 8(7):914. https://doi.org/10.3390/jcm8070914
Hakkim S, Parsa AD, Arafat SMY, et al. Pornography—Is It Good for Sexual Health? A Systematic Review. Journal of Psychosexual Health. 2022;4(2):111-122. doi:10.1177/26318318221088949
Thursday Oct 26, 2023
Season 2 - Episode 8 Why Would I Need A Living Will? with Kelli Dunham
Thursday Oct 26, 2023
Thursday Oct 26, 2023
Season 2, Episode 8: "Why Would I Need A Living Will?" with guest Kelli Dunham
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To learn more about our amazing guest, Kelli Dunham, her comedy, workshops, and her work visit: Kellidunham.com
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Thursday Sep 28, 2023
Season 2 - Episode 7: Could This Be Menopause? with Dr. Makeba Williams
Thursday Sep 28, 2023
Thursday Sep 28, 2023
Season 2, Episode 7: "Could This Be Menopause?"
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Show Notes:
Www.menopause.org, The North American Menopause Society
Jen Gunter, The Menopause Manifesto: Own Your Health with Facts and Feminism (Citadel, 2021)
Judith A. Houk, Hot and Bothered: Women, Medicine, and Menopause in Modern America (Harvard University Press, 2006)
Friday Sep 15, 2023
Mini Episode: Spreading Queer Joy with Dr. Sami Schalk
Friday Sep 15, 2023
Friday Sep 15, 2023
Season 2 - September Mini Episode: Spreading Queer Joy with Dr. Sami Schalk
Show notes:
To learn more about Dr. Sami Schalk, visit her website: http://samischalk.com/
She gave shout-outs to…
Freedom, Inc., https://freedom-inc.org/
GSafe in Wisconsin, https://gsafewi.org/
Outreach Madison, https://www.outreachmadisonlgbt.org/
Dana Pellebon, director of the Rape Crisis Center in Madison, WI, https://www.thercc.org/staff-bios/dana-pellebon
Thursday Jun 29, 2023
Season 2 - Episode 6: What Are You Doing For Pride?
Thursday Jun 29, 2023
Thursday Jun 29, 2023
Season 2, Episode 6: "What Are You Doing For Pride?"
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Show Notes:
Documentary of the first Christopher Street Liberation Day march, from Gay and Proud, by Lilli Vincenz, 1970, Library of Congress
Video of Christopher Street Liberation Day participants debating the exclusion of Sylvia Rivera from speaking at the march in 1973. With Marsha P. Johnson, Rivera co-founded Street Transvestite Action Revolutionaries (STAR) in 1970.
Stonewall:
David Carter, Stonewall: The Riots that Sparked the Gay Revolution (2004)
Marc Stein, The Stonewall Riots: A Documentary History (2019)
Martin Duberman, Stonewall (1993)
Pride:
Library of Congress, History of Pride; Pride at 50
Organizational history of NYC Pride (NYC organization that organizes NYC’s Pride March)
Thursday Jun 15, 2023
Mini-Episode: Spreading Queer Joy with Susan Stryker
Thursday Jun 15, 2023
Thursday Jun 15, 2023
Special Mini-Episode: Spreading Queer Joy with Susan Stryker
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Thursday Jun 01, 2023
Thursday Jun 01, 2023
Season 2, Episode 5: "I Keep Hearing About Ketamine Therapy. Should I Try It..." with special guest: Susan Stryker
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Show Notes: (Coming Soon)
Thursday Apr 27, 2023
Season 2 - Episode 4: Can Anyone Tell If I’m A Virgin?
Thursday Apr 27, 2023
Thursday Apr 27, 2023
Season 2, Episode 4: "Can Anyone Tell If I'm A Virgin..."
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Show Notes:
Huge shout out to Mercury Stardust (https://mercurystardust.com/merctree), Jory (@alluringskull), and Point of Pride (https://www.pointofpride.org/about) who raised over $2 MILLION during a 30hr live stream / Tik-Tok-A-Thon to support gender-affirming care at the end of March!
Historical Sources
Blank, Hanne. Virgin: The Untouched History. Bloomsbury Press, 2007.
Moslener, Sara. Virgin Nation: Sexual Purity and American Adolescence. New York: Oxford University Press, 2015.
Reinarz, Jonathan. Past Scents: Historical Perspectives on Smell. University of Illinois Press, 2014. https://www.jstor.org/stable/10.5406/j.ctt7zw5zg.
Rodriguez, Sara. "Restoring 'Virginal Conditions' and Reinstating the 'Normal': Episiotomy in 1920," in Heterosexual Histories, Rebecca Davis and Michele Mitchell, eds. (New York University Press, 2021), 303-330.
Medical References
Rosa M. Laterza, Mario De Gennaro, Andrea Tubaro, Heinz Koelbl. Female pelvic congenital malformations. Part I: embryology, anatomy and surgical treatment. European Journal of Obstetrics & Gynecology and Reproductive Biology, Volume 159, Issue 1, 2011, Pages 26-34,
Scarleteen https://www.scarleteen.com/
Jen Gunter’s Twitter thread about hymens/virginity: https://twitter.com/DrJenGunter/status/1192143613947457537?s=20
Moussaoui, D., Abdulcadir, J. and Yaron, M. (2022), Hymen and virginity: What every paediatrician should know. J Paediatr Child Health, 58: 382-387. https://doi-org.ezproxy.library.wisc.edu/10.1111/jpc.15887
https://www.who.int/news/item/17-10-2018-united-nations-agencies-call-for-ban-on-virginity-testing
Olson RM, García-Moreno C. Virginity testing: a systematic review. Reprod Health. 2017 May 18;14(1):61. doi: 10.1186/s12978-017-0319-0. PMID: 28521813; PMCID: PMC5437416.
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